Best Vibrator

Jennifer Amato asked:


What will these sex toy manufacturers come up with next?  I am continually amazed by new products that are developed, and wonder what is discussed during the designer’s brain storming sessions.    My first vibrator was called the “Pearl Butterfly.”  It had the rotating shaft, the vibrating clitoral stimulator, and I was impressed.  Now, the “Pearl Butterfly” is outshined by the latest and more intricate sex toys on the market.  Below are some of the latest products that are not your typical vibrator.

Take a look at the Sybian Sex Machine.  Rev this baby up and enjoy some wild and intense orgasmic moments.  This product is extremely powerful and costs more than your every day sex toy.   It includes different attachments and other gadgets that will be sure to give you the ride of your life. 

Another product that is new and definitely worth trying is the We-Vibe.  This sex toy is the first product that was developed that can be used during sexual intercourse.  One end is inserted into the vagina, which hits your G-spot and the other end rests on your sensitive clit.  The We-Vibe is hands free and fits comfortably with your bodily curves.

A unique vibrator that sparked my interest was the B3 Tuyo.  This sleek, luxurious looking vibrator is in the shape of a ball.   This multi-speed vibrator is great to use during solo play or with your partner, for a nice sensuous massage.  It also makes a wonderful gift as it comes packaged in a luxurious gift box.

Want to keep your sex toy your little secret.  Check out the LELO NEA.  I never realized how small vibrators can be.  In addition, this high-end vibrator resembles more of a decorative rock then a sex toy.  It offers multi-speeds and is only 3” in total length.  This vibe would be used more for surface stimulation than vaginal insertion.

For more information, click on this link for sex toys or refer to SpicyGear.com's vibrators department page.



Rodrigo

Eddie Yakubovich asked:


It seems like nowadays couples just can't seem to coincide their schedules. Some couples work schedule can be so completely opposite or they have become so over extended with commitments to other people that they find themselves hungry for affection with not much too sexually brag about either.

I'm in no way suggesting that you need to give up what personally or professionally brings you satisfaction or rewards but with that said wanting to achieve material things in life or by having the desire to climb that corporate ladder does have negative effects on your sex and personal life.

So to keep your partner faithful, you know just like what I always say that there is nothing absolutely wrong or disgusting with wanting a vibrator or dildo. These were developed for a purpose. To bring to you total sexual gratification. You are absolutely guaranteed to orgasm either by your partner or spouse penetrating you with a butt plug or rabbit vibrator or by the hands of yourself.

I'm talking about masturbation or in another more modern term I like to refer to it as self loving. It doesn,t matter if you,re a lesbian, gay or straight. We all have to go to work and live our daily lives in hopes that at the end of a long day you get to relax with our partner or spouse who will be their to bring us the sexual satisfaction we've been craving all day. You probably have been craving a release from your sexual tension for many days.

It is a proven fact by scientists who study sexual and emotional behavior that having an orgasm is a natural stress reducer and brings about a whole body relaxation experience. It would be wise of you to allow your self this experience even if your partner or spouse isn,t there to share in this wonderful experience with you.

Just break out your favorite sex toy and find a comfortable spot somewhere in your home where you won't be interrupted and start the magic. Don,t be ashamed of the fact that you enjoy the pleasures of knowing that a ready made pliable silicone dildo, that looks and feels just like a very large and girth erect penis, is their to bring you instant and guaranteed orgasms. There are suction base dildos that you can impale for maximum grinding effects if that is something you desire as well.

There are water safe sex toys that really do wonders if you are the kind of person that enjoys taking hot baths at night. Many of these items were developed to bring you anal and vaginal stimulation. Obviously dildos are water safe because they don require any mechanical functions like a double ended dildo or even a triple stimulating dildo. A triple ended dildo if you're not sure what it is for is to bring you anal, vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Adult sex toys and products can do the work for you when your partner or spouse isn,t their.

Now really don,t get me wrong when I say that you can't always wait for your partner and that you shouldn,t, but its always better when he or she is their to share in that wonderful orgasmic experience with you.



Rocky

Eddie Yakubovich asked:


Yes you hear that kind of comment all the time. Women want it all and they don't need you to get it. If your have that nine to five job and financially making your own way who needs permission from a spouse or partner as to what decisions affect you. Women even love themselves and orgasm at their will with adult sex toys and vibrators.

Now most independent women may not have a huge selection of adult sex toys and vibrators that you would expect to find among married couples or partners. Single women usually may only have one. If I can suggest that if you don't own a vibrator yet and if you are to have only one you may want to try the rabbit vibrator. Its dual purpose really is quite divine.

I do however think too much is placed on that kind of statement. Too many women and young girls think that they don't need or want a real physical partner in their lives. I do think that it is misunderstood to think that women want it all as long as it doesn't involve a man interfering with their business. But how much independence is too much.

Adult sex products and vibrators should not to be used to replace a partner. Vibrators should not be a substitute for a spouse. It is in our natural genetic make up to share in human touch and share the physical feeling of sexual desire. An orgasm is much more gratifying and pleasurable when shared with or brought on by a spouse or partner you truly are in love with or very much fond of. Sex toys of any kind are meant to be used as enhancing your sexual experience and to bring a new kind of playfulness into your relationship.

I think that we shouldn't confuse the issue of independent women not needing a man for sexual pleasure. You should think of it like this when your just home alone and there is no one their but you and sparky. You had an exhausting stressful day at work, you just had a late dinner and you want to relax in a nice hot bath with soft comforting music and candles glowing. You are starting to end your day with proven relaxation techniques. At this point why not take on all the pleasure of masturbation with a vibrator.

Taking the pleasure of vibrators of any kind is about escapism. It is something truly different in our lives. We can give so much of ourselves at times that we often feel guilty for anything personally gratifying. Well we shouldn't. That's why we create a fantasy life. That's why we work so hard at it. We want a full life of orgasms and lust. We want a man on our terms. We don't even want to know their name or personally get to know them. Imagine how much that fantasy life would dissipate the moment he starts to burp or pass gas at the dinner table.



Korey

Emile-anne Smith asked:


Once a taboo topic, sex toys have found their way into many bedrooms across the globe. Many people tend to think or feel that by having and using one of these sexual toys that it is somehow a replacement for a lover that is inadequate. This is simply not true; a sex toy is a useful instrument, which is enjoyed by many people, as a sex enhancement not a replacement. Additionally, these types of sexual enhancements come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and items; they are not limited to being used to fill various orifices.

Probably the most popular of sex toys, are vibrators. Vibrators are fun and exciting toys for both men and women. There are many different types of vibrators that are available to consumers, some are battery powered or electric (through a plug in), some are waterproof for use within the shower or tub and others are not made for use in water. Some vibrators even come with a variety of attachments, all of which are used to enhance the pleasure for the user. These types of sex toys all come in various girth and lengths; it is a matter of the preference of the user. Most, not all also have been made to mimic a realistic penis, with "Veins" and all. Others are simply smooth without any type of "design" to them whatsoever.

Another popular item within the realm of sex toys are massagers. Massagers are essentially vibrators that can be used anywhere. These came before the vibrator (though it is somewhat like, which came first, the chicken or the egg). These types of sex toys typically can be used in a variety of erogenous zones. Massagers also come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and with various attachments. They can be an exciting addition to your sexual relationships. Now as I mentioned earlier on in this article, sex toys is not all about vibrators and massagers, there are a wide variety of items, included within this category. For example, there are "dolls" that are created to portray a real person; they make dolls for both men and women.

Additionally, sex toys include clit stimulators and enhancers like lubrication, anal gels and lubrication, items to prolong erections, massage oils that warm when applied or blown on, sexual games played as a couple or group, and even lipstick like applications that is said to have an arousing affect orally. Clit stimulators are specifically designed to fit a woman's body and help her reach orgasm. Clit stimulators come in variety of aspects such as different designs or those that can be worn inside the panties. Additionally, there are remote controlled clit stimulators that allow you to give your partner the control over when it goes on or off, leaving the excitement and surprise each time. Sex toys are used as a sexual enhancement within a relationship or by an individual; however, you should also practice safety and precautions to ensure that the experience is enjoyed by all. Clean all sex toys thoroughly after and before using, and ensure that the participant is comfortable in using the toy. Ensure that you do not push your own limits or that of your partners, because improper use could result in injury.



Bradley

Jennifer Amato asked:


Question to Spicy Gear's Experts - I Am 24 and have not had sex in more than 10 year.I decided to wait for the right partner. Recently I have been feeling wet/horny and I thought buying a vibe, ultimate rabbit, will stimulate me and relieve the urge,

but oh my the experience was quite uncomfortable and almost painful. The thing is too big for me but it is only 5". I get stimulation to orgasm from rubbing the clit with my fingers with silk pants on but I have never had vaginal stimulations. Any suggestions.

It is very natural for you to be feeling sexual urges and the desire to satisfy them. Using a sex toy, such as the ultimate rabbit, is a great way to experience your body’s range of sensual and sexual feelings. It will also help you in discovering what you like, the types of touch you enjoy and how your body responds, building confidence in your sexual self and readying you for when you do enter into an intimate relationship.

Most women experience heightened pleasure through clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is packed with nerve endings with the sole purpose of sexual pleasure. On the other hand, the vagina has very few nerve endings compared to the clitoris and other areas of your genitila. Also, it takes time (10-30 minutes depending on the woman) for a woman to become fully sexually aroused, to the point where the vagina swells, lubricates and is ready for penetration.

What I recommend is that you take your time. Move the vibrator along other parts of your body to include your legs, inner thighs, breasts, abdomen, then slowly toward your vulva, inner and outer lips (labia), then your clitoris. Give yourself time to build up the sexual excitement before attempting to penetrate your vagina and include clitoral stimulation during any penetration. These steps can result in you experiencing powerful sexual sensations and orgasm! Enjoy!!

Question answered by Spicy Gear's Sex Therapist Lynne Santiago, MS, LMHC



Greta