Sexual Freedom — An On-going Series Examining your Sexual Rights in Society
February 11th, 2010
Vibrator.com asked:
"Prurient interest means a shameful or morbid interest in nudity, sex, or excretion and is reflective of an arousal of lewd and lascivious desires and thoughts." That statement is taken directly from H. 4830, a bill introduced into the South Carolina General Assembly last March by Representative G. Ralph Davenport, Jr. of Boiling Springs, SC. The bill would effectively make the sale, possession, use, advertisement, or promotion of any sexual device a felony punishable by confiscation, fines of up to $10,000, and not more than five years of prison.
In Tennessee, state Sen. Charlotte Burks and state Rep. Eric Swafford have proposed Senate Bill 3794 (House Bill 3798), a legislation that would make it illegal to sell, advertise, publish, or exhibit to another person "any three-dimensional device designed or marketed as useful primarily for the stimulation of human genital organs. . ."
While Davenport's, Burks', and Swafford's proposed bills still await enactment, other states -- Texas, Alabama, Georgia, and Mississippi -- already have in place similar legislation banning the sale, distribution, and possession of adult sex toys. In these states, as well as in Indiana and Virginia, controversial interpretations and court decisions continue to confuse the issue of whether local government bodies can or should dictate what adult citizens may or may not do with sex toys and sexual devices.
The states' laws governing sex toys are based -- according to their sponsors -- on not offending community standards of obscenity in an effort to curtail "prurient interest" among their citizens. The language of the laws -- such as the statement which begins this article -- is so vague and interpretive that an individual is at risk for experiencing "an arousal of lewd and lascivious desires and thoughts." A reader is struck, too, by the biblical tone and interpretation of the word "shameful" in the law.
Depending upon "community standards" as a definition of what is or is not obscene, particularly in the ownership, use, and sales of adult sex toys, would appear to place legislation at the municipal level, that is among the community members itself. The diversity inherent in a state-wide "community" would necessarily include the retail stores, businesses, owners and users of sex toys. It is unlikely that these would support nor promote legislation making the sales or ownership of sex toys a criminal felony.
"Shameful sexual practices" -- determined as the use of sex toys among adults by certain legislators -- appears to be an archaic phrase. It is the language and tone of centuries-old censors who wished to regulate and control the behavior and freedom of members of society.
Sex positive activists, educators, business owners, and responsible citizens continue to urge awareness about your local, state, and federal laws regulating the distribution, sale, promotion, use, and ownership of sex toys. If you are unclear about these laws or if you feel they do not reflect your views, there are numerous venues online, including your state assemblies and senates, the ACLU, and sex education organizations where you can find detailed information.
Quinten
"Prurient interest means a shameful or morbid interest in nudity, sex, or excretion and is reflective of an arousal of lewd and lascivious desires and thoughts." That statement is taken directly from H. 4830, a bill introduced into the South Carolina General Assembly last March by Representative G. Ralph Davenport, Jr. of Boiling Springs, SC. The bill would effectively make the sale, possession, use, advertisement, or promotion of any sexual device a felony punishable by confiscation, fines of up to $10,000, and not more than five years of prison.
In Tennessee, state Sen. Charlotte Burks and state Rep. Eric Swafford have proposed Senate Bill 3794 (House Bill 3798), a legislation that would make it illegal to sell, advertise, publish, or exhibit to another person "any three-dimensional device designed or marketed as useful primarily for the stimulation of human genital organs. . ."
While Davenport's, Burks', and Swafford's proposed bills still await enactment, other states -- Texas, Alabama, Georgia, and Mississippi -- already have in place similar legislation banning the sale, distribution, and possession of adult sex toys. In these states, as well as in Indiana and Virginia, controversial interpretations and court decisions continue to confuse the issue of whether local government bodies can or should dictate what adult citizens may or may not do with sex toys and sexual devices.
The states' laws governing sex toys are based -- according to their sponsors -- on not offending community standards of obscenity in an effort to curtail "prurient interest" among their citizens. The language of the laws -- such as the statement which begins this article -- is so vague and interpretive that an individual is at risk for experiencing "an arousal of lewd and lascivious desires and thoughts." A reader is struck, too, by the biblical tone and interpretation of the word "shameful" in the law.
Depending upon "community standards" as a definition of what is or is not obscene, particularly in the ownership, use, and sales of adult sex toys, would appear to place legislation at the municipal level, that is among the community members itself. The diversity inherent in a state-wide "community" would necessarily include the retail stores, businesses, owners and users of sex toys. It is unlikely that these would support nor promote legislation making the sales or ownership of sex toys a criminal felony.
"Shameful sexual practices" -- determined as the use of sex toys among adults by certain legislators -- appears to be an archaic phrase. It is the language and tone of centuries-old censors who wished to regulate and control the behavior and freedom of members of society.
Sex positive activists, educators, business owners, and responsible citizens continue to urge awareness about your local, state, and federal laws regulating the distribution, sale, promotion, use, and ownership of sex toys. If you are unclear about these laws or if you feel they do not reflect your views, there are numerous venues online, including your state assemblies and senates, the ACLU, and sex education organizations where you can find detailed information.
Quinten
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Your Sacred Sensual Sexual Nature Controls Your Destiny. Find out How!
February 11th, 2010
Paula Andrea Pyle, MA asked:
MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Straight Sex Talk On Esoteric Terms
Why is it important to make a conscientious homework style study of you, your habits, motivations, inclinations, desires, fears insecurities and dreams? What difference could it possibly make in the large scheme of things? Wouldn’t it involve way too much time, unnecessary effort and precious focused energy that could be better spent doing things that are way much more pleasing? The answer to all of these relevant and thought provoking questions is undeniably: “If it don’t matter to you, it don’t matter!” I’m the first one to encourage to do only those things that excite, thrill, invoke pleasure and extend joy!
Nothing is as important as your thoroughly enjoying the existence you have secured in this life. Nothing is more meaningful than the time you will devote to doing those things that you derive benefit from and nothing is more significant than your being able to invest your energy on continuous pleasurable matters. Anything short of that enterprise is wasted! But, if there was a way to accentuate your valuable time, add more intense passionate pleasure to your life while you zero in on what makes you the most erotically artistically fulfilled, would that be worth investigating? I thought so.
You are certainly, undeniably irrevocably the most fascinating and interesting subject of study you could ever devote yourself to examining and reviewing. You possess so many infiltrated non-duplicable layers of intensive massively mysterious essence; the excitement of unraveling the mystery goes without being able to describe the ineffable journey. It borders on sheer unbounded ecstasy. The first thing you must realize is that you don’t have a clue as to who you are, have ever been or ever will be without this concentrated study.
Next, the multifaceted environment in which you were born is the exact setting needed for the experience you personally inherently need to experience while alive. No other circumstances could have better provided for you the necessary substance (soil) from which you would have grown and continue to grow. In your life you will, no doubt, encounter various sets of circumstances. The people you interact with, the relationships you involve yourself with, the family, work and and/or friends are all part of the unsolved picture of your dreamed life of erotic artistic suspense.
It is not important that you know beforehand what these specific incidents have portrayed nor in what precise manner they will unfold, but it is important for you to gain a grasp of understanding in the how, what, where and with whom (the cosmic why) you have the specific reactions to these occurrences you have experienced. It’s a lot more fun! (Sort of like watching a super great suspense movie not knowing the outcome but somewhat figuring it out along the way based on unobvious/obvious clues.)
The truth is: we all possess a basic cosmic blueprint in our individual personalities. There is a divine formula to our lives. (A sublime strategic involvement of energetically manipulating the chosen circumstances in perfectly celestially manicured form blows the mind if we were not prepared to see and appreciate the underlying sacred impetus engaged). The rapturous emotional sexual content alone far exceeds any explosive creative adventure you could ever envision.
It is more than worth the time, effort, and energy required to study your make-up, personality, relationships, family and bent of character, which of course makes up your unique destiny. (Talents included). Unless you are willing to invest yourself in search of your deepest most erotic motivations, you will never be able to scratch the surface of the inherent meaning attached to your life. This may or may not be important to you at the present time, but take in consideration why one studies any subject. (Most especially those things that sensually arouse)
To gain a better understanding of it so that he/she may be in a place and position to master it. Becoming proficient in learning how to be throughout engaged artistically endowed erotically fulfilled human makes life worth living! And, by (remembering) learning how to identify which quality, strength or weakness that is available to us in times of crises, we are more apt to flow and ‘grow’ through the situation and come out virtually unscathed. Yes, the benefit is always attached to the result in how much we gain from it. To present any other case is deceitful and absurd.
Moreover, to be ever present is an ardent task to say the least and a lifetime endeavor to say the most. However, dependent upon your own level of zeal, enthusiasm, and commitment to you, things fall into place a lot faster with much more precision. The purpose of life is to get to the point where one is able to be ‘raw’ in the moment able to actualize his fullest potential without the need to apologize, excuse, defend, or appreciate. Yes, I did say appreciate. Appreciation belongs to a cosmic sphere of influence. People do what they do because they want to do and for no other reason. No need to be grateful to anyone.
. The virgin moment presents expanded otherwise unattainable knowledge at every turn to be lived and experienced freely/full---unapologetically. And, instead of getting ‘hung up’ on the external forces operating, by becoming familiar with the complete universal picture) Accompanied with you in it) renders one in a much more affable and agreeable mind. It is also just as important to realize and accept the fact that the relationship that exists is always between the known and the unknown and not simply with the knowledge itself. (Meaning: you’re always running on the edge of the abysmal danger of unveiling this you had no idea existed)
With that pertinent statement said, remember always and never forget: the event is real; your interpretation is false. Things are never what they seem and most often times are in fact, reverse in nature. Astrology has been called the “mother of all sciences” due to the premise of man’s original attempt to formulate order in the universe and to draw from it some sense of relevance in his own little world. (Astrology is a great place to start in order to begin to unravel you in your orbit travels on earth.) Mot too much of a stretch in the imagination to ascertain that all sciences are merely premeditated attempts to predict what will occur when precisely measured factors come together under definitely states and controlled conditions.
Each and every human being vibrates to a distinctive tone. This tone is sexually vibrated as is every object on earth whether animate or inanimate. The source of the tone is ubiquitous. There is a satirically monitored cosmic rhythm that exists and to ‘plug’ into this harmonious sound is essential for fulfilling destiny, ‘establishing and maintaining’ well-being and sustaining an erotically rewarding magnanimous peace of mind. Dreams play a major role in the decoding of this omnipresent celestial force of undivided pleasure. Sexual energy is indeed the highest form of spiritual energy available to mankind. It is totally artistic in execution and seeks expression without permission or preliminary niceties. It’s all about coming to terms with the master of divine essence of which you are in unimaginable measure. Now, you tell me: is it worth an executed stab of your best sensual effort to find out what you are all about artistically and just what you’re capable of producing of momentous value while visiting this planet?
Tabitha
MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Straight Sex Talk On Esoteric Terms
Why is it important to make a conscientious homework style study of you, your habits, motivations, inclinations, desires, fears insecurities and dreams? What difference could it possibly make in the large scheme of things? Wouldn’t it involve way too much time, unnecessary effort and precious focused energy that could be better spent doing things that are way much more pleasing? The answer to all of these relevant and thought provoking questions is undeniably: “If it don’t matter to you, it don’t matter!” I’m the first one to encourage to do only those things that excite, thrill, invoke pleasure and extend joy!
Nothing is as important as your thoroughly enjoying the existence you have secured in this life. Nothing is more meaningful than the time you will devote to doing those things that you derive benefit from and nothing is more significant than your being able to invest your energy on continuous pleasurable matters. Anything short of that enterprise is wasted! But, if there was a way to accentuate your valuable time, add more intense passionate pleasure to your life while you zero in on what makes you the most erotically artistically fulfilled, would that be worth investigating? I thought so.
You are certainly, undeniably irrevocably the most fascinating and interesting subject of study you could ever devote yourself to examining and reviewing. You possess so many infiltrated non-duplicable layers of intensive massively mysterious essence; the excitement of unraveling the mystery goes without being able to describe the ineffable journey. It borders on sheer unbounded ecstasy. The first thing you must realize is that you don’t have a clue as to who you are, have ever been or ever will be without this concentrated study.
Next, the multifaceted environment in which you were born is the exact setting needed for the experience you personally inherently need to experience while alive. No other circumstances could have better provided for you the necessary substance (soil) from which you would have grown and continue to grow. In your life you will, no doubt, encounter various sets of circumstances. The people you interact with, the relationships you involve yourself with, the family, work and and/or friends are all part of the unsolved picture of your dreamed life of erotic artistic suspense.
It is not important that you know beforehand what these specific incidents have portrayed nor in what precise manner they will unfold, but it is important for you to gain a grasp of understanding in the how, what, where and with whom (the cosmic why) you have the specific reactions to these occurrences you have experienced. It’s a lot more fun! (Sort of like watching a super great suspense movie not knowing the outcome but somewhat figuring it out along the way based on unobvious/obvious clues.)
The truth is: we all possess a basic cosmic blueprint in our individual personalities. There is a divine formula to our lives. (A sublime strategic involvement of energetically manipulating the chosen circumstances in perfectly celestially manicured form blows the mind if we were not prepared to see and appreciate the underlying sacred impetus engaged). The rapturous emotional sexual content alone far exceeds any explosive creative adventure you could ever envision.
It is more than worth the time, effort, and energy required to study your make-up, personality, relationships, family and bent of character, which of course makes up your unique destiny. (Talents included). Unless you are willing to invest yourself in search of your deepest most erotic motivations, you will never be able to scratch the surface of the inherent meaning attached to your life. This may or may not be important to you at the present time, but take in consideration why one studies any subject. (Most especially those things that sensually arouse)
To gain a better understanding of it so that he/she may be in a place and position to master it. Becoming proficient in learning how to be throughout engaged artistically endowed erotically fulfilled human makes life worth living! And, by (remembering) learning how to identify which quality, strength or weakness that is available to us in times of crises, we are more apt to flow and ‘grow’ through the situation and come out virtually unscathed. Yes, the benefit is always attached to the result in how much we gain from it. To present any other case is deceitful and absurd.
Moreover, to be ever present is an ardent task to say the least and a lifetime endeavor to say the most. However, dependent upon your own level of zeal, enthusiasm, and commitment to you, things fall into place a lot faster with much more precision. The purpose of life is to get to the point where one is able to be ‘raw’ in the moment able to actualize his fullest potential without the need to apologize, excuse, defend, or appreciate. Yes, I did say appreciate. Appreciation belongs to a cosmic sphere of influence. People do what they do because they want to do and for no other reason. No need to be grateful to anyone.
. The virgin moment presents expanded otherwise unattainable knowledge at every turn to be lived and experienced freely/full---unapologetically. And, instead of getting ‘hung up’ on the external forces operating, by becoming familiar with the complete universal picture) Accompanied with you in it) renders one in a much more affable and agreeable mind. It is also just as important to realize and accept the fact that the relationship that exists is always between the known and the unknown and not simply with the knowledge itself. (Meaning: you’re always running on the edge of the abysmal danger of unveiling this you had no idea existed)
With that pertinent statement said, remember always and never forget: the event is real; your interpretation is false. Things are never what they seem and most often times are in fact, reverse in nature. Astrology has been called the “mother of all sciences” due to the premise of man’s original attempt to formulate order in the universe and to draw from it some sense of relevance in his own little world. (Astrology is a great place to start in order to begin to unravel you in your orbit travels on earth.) Mot too much of a stretch in the imagination to ascertain that all sciences are merely premeditated attempts to predict what will occur when precisely measured factors come together under definitely states and controlled conditions.
Each and every human being vibrates to a distinctive tone. This tone is sexually vibrated as is every object on earth whether animate or inanimate. The source of the tone is ubiquitous. There is a satirically monitored cosmic rhythm that exists and to ‘plug’ into this harmonious sound is essential for fulfilling destiny, ‘establishing and maintaining’ well-being and sustaining an erotically rewarding magnanimous peace of mind. Dreams play a major role in the decoding of this omnipresent celestial force of undivided pleasure. Sexual energy is indeed the highest form of spiritual energy available to mankind. It is totally artistic in execution and seeks expression without permission or preliminary niceties. It’s all about coming to terms with the master of divine essence of which you are in unimaginable measure. Now, you tell me: is it worth an executed stab of your best sensual effort to find out what you are all about artistically and just what you’re capable of producing of momentous value while visiting this planet?
Tabitha
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Peace Of Mind For The Sexually Challenged
February 9th, 2010
Eddie Yakubovich asked:
You know who you are. Don't be ashamed. Sexual dysfunction and sexual complications are more common than you realize in people who are in their middle forties or older.
Life puts plenty of stress on us all. Sometimes more than we can bare sometimes. Unfortunately we tend to feel depresses and worthless which affects our sexual libido and performance. Not that we intend to have that happen like that it is just a natural occurrence. The body does have a mind of its own. It has a way of telling us things.
There is no reason to stress over this matter when their there are all kinds of help out their. So many reputable companies have come up with natural and pharmaceutical products to help men get and maintain an erection. These companies have also noticed that women need that kind of attention as well and have formulated products to give them some help with their libido and sexual drive.
Some people can just be plain old orgasmicaly challenged. It used to be that these people had to suffer in silence. They felt too ashamed to discuss the matter with either their doctor or spouse.
Society has really come a long way in regards to sexual issues. Look how common it is to hear about sexual dysfunction on television. It has become so apparent that sexual health is such a major part of our being. Any sex therapist will tell you how important it is to the body mind and soul to orgasm.
Sex toys and products of any kind, especially the rabbit vibrator which you can find on a lot of sex toy web sites. It really is a necessity for women so all you men out their go get one. It is not to say that men cannot help out in that area but lets face it sometimes they can't.
Like I said earlier, it is through no fault of their own they just don't understand sometime what it takes for women to reach an orgasm. We are not out to replace men but when are having difficulties why should their partner or spouse have to suffer with them. I think you will find that it is very enriching being in the orgasm process no matter how it is achieved.
Teach them ladies. Most men like the idea of sex toys like vibrators and dildos. Sex toys really help men out when it comes to satisfying their partner. It really does broaden your sexual relationship. You really do experience a much closer connection with each other.
That is why I said that as we age don't make it out to be such an ordeal if your libido seems to be slowing down or you have trouble maintaining an erection. With so many products available on the market to you, you don't have to live the rest of your life in agony. Go and get a sex toy and some natural enhancement products and get out their.
Celia
You know who you are. Don't be ashamed. Sexual dysfunction and sexual complications are more common than you realize in people who are in their middle forties or older.
Life puts plenty of stress on us all. Sometimes more than we can bare sometimes. Unfortunately we tend to feel depresses and worthless which affects our sexual libido and performance. Not that we intend to have that happen like that it is just a natural occurrence. The body does have a mind of its own. It has a way of telling us things.
There is no reason to stress over this matter when their there are all kinds of help out their. So many reputable companies have come up with natural and pharmaceutical products to help men get and maintain an erection. These companies have also noticed that women need that kind of attention as well and have formulated products to give them some help with their libido and sexual drive.
Some people can just be plain old orgasmicaly challenged. It used to be that these people had to suffer in silence. They felt too ashamed to discuss the matter with either their doctor or spouse.
Society has really come a long way in regards to sexual issues. Look how common it is to hear about sexual dysfunction on television. It has become so apparent that sexual health is such a major part of our being. Any sex therapist will tell you how important it is to the body mind and soul to orgasm.
Sex toys and products of any kind, especially the rabbit vibrator which you can find on a lot of sex toy web sites. It really is a necessity for women so all you men out their go get one. It is not to say that men cannot help out in that area but lets face it sometimes they can't.
Like I said earlier, it is through no fault of their own they just don't understand sometime what it takes for women to reach an orgasm. We are not out to replace men but when are having difficulties why should their partner or spouse have to suffer with them. I think you will find that it is very enriching being in the orgasm process no matter how it is achieved.
Teach them ladies. Most men like the idea of sex toys like vibrators and dildos. Sex toys really help men out when it comes to satisfying their partner. It really does broaden your sexual relationship. You really do experience a much closer connection with each other.
That is why I said that as we age don't make it out to be such an ordeal if your libido seems to be slowing down or you have trouble maintaining an erection. With so many products available on the market to you, you don't have to live the rest of your life in agony. Go and get a sex toy and some natural enhancement products and get out their.
Celia
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G Spot and Sexual Position
February 9th, 2010
Alex asked:
The g spot was named for the German physician Ernst Grafenberg who first described "an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation."
What You Need to Remember
We've covered a lot of material in this chapter, but there are a few points which I think are the most important for you to remember. These points are listed below:
• Both women and men go through four stages of sexual arousal. The difference between them is at which stage they are ready for intercourse. Men are ready from the first stage when they have an erection; women need to wait until the end of the second stage if they are going to be physically ready to have an orgasm.
• Just because a woman's vagina is lubricated that does not mean she is aroused enough for sexual intercourse. Women who engage in sex before their body is ready generally do not have as pleasurable an experience and rarely have orgasms, particularly not vaginal orgasms.
• By learning how to control their PC muscles, men can train their bodies to hold off on ejaculating. This means they continue having sex longer and can achieve multiple orgasms for their partners and themselves.
• Oral sex and genital touching are not really foreplay. These are sex acts, not lead-ins to sex.
• Foreplay should involve gentle touching, particularly of the erogenous zones, and any type of activity which will relax your partner and heighten her arousal, including talking dirty, giving her a massage, or rubbing her skin with an ice cube.
• Don't engage in sex until she is ready. Remember wait until she is asking for penetration even though it may be difficult for you to hold back.
Strategies for Achieving Orgasm
After you've gotten your partner worked up with the use of some good foreplay, you're now ready to move on to the next step and to bring her to orgasm through sex. In this article we're going to look at how you can help her reach orgasm through vaginal, oral, and even anal sex. The reason is that variety is going to help keep things from ever getting boring in the bedroom (or wherever else you enjoy one another).
Orgasm through Vaginal Intercourse
As we've discussed throughout the article, most women find it difficult to achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse. In this section, however, we're going to look at some techniques and positions you can try with her in order to make climaxing easier. Keep in mind as you try these different approaches that every woman's body is different, so if one technique doesn't work with your partner simply try something else.
• Missionary Position 1 – For women, the missionary position is often the most difficult when it comes to achieving orgasm. Unfortunately, if your partner is nervous or not very experimental, she may not be interested in trying other positions yet. That doesn't mean she can't still get off. Have your partner lie back on the bed and place a pillow or two under her butt so her pelvic area is more arched. Remember to continue the foreplay even as you are getting in position, so fondle her breasts or play with her butt as you place the pillows. Whisper in her ear that you have something incredible in store for her, then let her mind conjure up the details. With her pelvic area arched in this way thanks to the pillows, you'll have an easier time of stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse. However, if you want to boost your odds, you can purchase an inexpensive vibrator designed for the anus. Gently insert it at or before you begin penetration. The vibrations will stimulate her pelvic area, including her clitoris, which may lead you both to the desired orgasm.
• Missionary Position 2 - Repeat everything from the first missionary position we discussed, but instead of using the vibrator, place your partner's legs on your shoulders as you thrust inside her. This makes it easier for your penis to stimulate her clitoris. Remember to start slowly and work you way up to harder and deeper penetration. Let her reaction guide you. If she begins to moan with pleasure, then intensify your movements.
• Grinding – When women masturbate with their fingers, they often rub their clitoris using circular movements. Since you know that, you should attempt to use similar circular motions during penetration. To do this, you need to grind into your partner the way you would if you were doing some erotic dancing. Move your hips in a circular motion and make sure that you are pressing against her groin area. The combination of your movement and the pressure on the area will stimulate her clitoris and bring her to orgasm.
Kelsey
The g spot was named for the German physician Ernst Grafenberg who first described "an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation."
What You Need to Remember
We've covered a lot of material in this chapter, but there are a few points which I think are the most important for you to remember. These points are listed below:
• Both women and men go through four stages of sexual arousal. The difference between them is at which stage they are ready for intercourse. Men are ready from the first stage when they have an erection; women need to wait until the end of the second stage if they are going to be physically ready to have an orgasm.
• Just because a woman's vagina is lubricated that does not mean she is aroused enough for sexual intercourse. Women who engage in sex before their body is ready generally do not have as pleasurable an experience and rarely have orgasms, particularly not vaginal orgasms.
• By learning how to control their PC muscles, men can train their bodies to hold off on ejaculating. This means they continue having sex longer and can achieve multiple orgasms for their partners and themselves.
• Oral sex and genital touching are not really foreplay. These are sex acts, not lead-ins to sex.
• Foreplay should involve gentle touching, particularly of the erogenous zones, and any type of activity which will relax your partner and heighten her arousal, including talking dirty, giving her a massage, or rubbing her skin with an ice cube.
• Don't engage in sex until she is ready. Remember wait until she is asking for penetration even though it may be difficult for you to hold back.
Strategies for Achieving Orgasm
After you've gotten your partner worked up with the use of some good foreplay, you're now ready to move on to the next step and to bring her to orgasm through sex. In this article we're going to look at how you can help her reach orgasm through vaginal, oral, and even anal sex. The reason is that variety is going to help keep things from ever getting boring in the bedroom (or wherever else you enjoy one another).
Orgasm through Vaginal Intercourse
As we've discussed throughout the article, most women find it difficult to achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse. In this section, however, we're going to look at some techniques and positions you can try with her in order to make climaxing easier. Keep in mind as you try these different approaches that every woman's body is different, so if one technique doesn't work with your partner simply try something else.
• Missionary Position 1 – For women, the missionary position is often the most difficult when it comes to achieving orgasm. Unfortunately, if your partner is nervous or not very experimental, she may not be interested in trying other positions yet. That doesn't mean she can't still get off. Have your partner lie back on the bed and place a pillow or two under her butt so her pelvic area is more arched. Remember to continue the foreplay even as you are getting in position, so fondle her breasts or play with her butt as you place the pillows. Whisper in her ear that you have something incredible in store for her, then let her mind conjure up the details. With her pelvic area arched in this way thanks to the pillows, you'll have an easier time of stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse. However, if you want to boost your odds, you can purchase an inexpensive vibrator designed for the anus. Gently insert it at or before you begin penetration. The vibrations will stimulate her pelvic area, including her clitoris, which may lead you both to the desired orgasm.
• Missionary Position 2 - Repeat everything from the first missionary position we discussed, but instead of using the vibrator, place your partner's legs on your shoulders as you thrust inside her. This makes it easier for your penis to stimulate her clitoris. Remember to start slowly and work you way up to harder and deeper penetration. Let her reaction guide you. If she begins to moan with pleasure, then intensify your movements.
• Grinding – When women masturbate with their fingers, they often rub their clitoris using circular movements. Since you know that, you should attempt to use similar circular motions during penetration. To do this, you need to grind into your partner the way you would if you were doing some erotic dancing. Move your hips in a circular motion and make sure that you are pressing against her groin area. The combination of your movement and the pressure on the area will stimulate her clitoris and bring her to orgasm.
Kelsey
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Vibrator: Experience the Ultimate Pleasure
February 6th, 2010
Mark Talyor asked:
Are you in charge of your sex life? If not then use vibrator and give your sex life a new height. Whether you are playing with a partner or flying solo, a nice and inexpensive sex toy like vibrator gives you a great chance to enhance your sexual pleasure! Enjoy it together, enhance your sex life and satisfy your partner’s commands…
Thus, get comfortable and settle down with vibrator to start things off… But it is also true that vibrators were designed not just for pleasuring the fair sex, but for bringing some exciting emotions to men as well. Vibrators are available in variety of shapes, sizes and textures, each catering to a particular taste.
So, start by using the vibrators to tease and tantalize yourself (or your partner). And be sure to go ahead and insert the batteries in these toys before beginning. Try using it all over the body and get a good feel for the variety of sensations. Apart from that, don’t forget to experiment with the vibrators, as each brings
its own sense of relaxation and ecstasy. Be sure to spend extra time focusing on more sensitive areas such as the nipples before easing the nostalgic vibe down between your legs.
By now you will be flooded with pleasure and you can use the sex toys to bring on stunning orgasms over and over again. The other thing is that vibrators are designed to give you a distinctive emotional aura. For instance, Egg and Bullet vibrator: this kind of vibrators can have the shape of egg or bullet that come with one or two items in the set. The special comfort in use is achieved by their sliding shape and smooth surface, so they are easily inserted into vagina or rectum creating the wonderful sensations.
Apart from that your G-spot will beg for a little direct stimulation, especially when you're aroused or after you've already climaxed. For this, G-spot vibrator will do the job and this vibrator is curved at the top and is usually quite long to stimulate one of the hottest sex centers of woman's body. Applying that firm stimulation can lead to a G-spot orgasm. More to say, many people claimed that they have practiced the most intense orgasmic experience of all with this G-spot vibrator.
Furthermore, there are also other types of vibrators available like Classical vibrators that have straight phallic form, usually are made from hard plastic material, which renders vibrations in full. And for those who want to keep hands free
during the getting pleasure fun, Hands-free -- also called strap-on vibe -- is a great option. Vibrators are also remote controlled and you can use your vibrator everywhere from the bedroom to the boardroom! So choose your vibrator strap yourself in for one wild ride and experience all the pleasure of the world!!
Katie
Are you in charge of your sex life? If not then use vibrator and give your sex life a new height. Whether you are playing with a partner or flying solo, a nice and inexpensive sex toy like vibrator gives you a great chance to enhance your sexual pleasure! Enjoy it together, enhance your sex life and satisfy your partner’s commands…
Thus, get comfortable and settle down with vibrator to start things off… But it is also true that vibrators were designed not just for pleasuring the fair sex, but for bringing some exciting emotions to men as well. Vibrators are available in variety of shapes, sizes and textures, each catering to a particular taste.
So, start by using the vibrators to tease and tantalize yourself (or your partner). And be sure to go ahead and insert the batteries in these toys before beginning. Try using it all over the body and get a good feel for the variety of sensations. Apart from that, don’t forget to experiment with the vibrators, as each brings
its own sense of relaxation and ecstasy. Be sure to spend extra time focusing on more sensitive areas such as the nipples before easing the nostalgic vibe down between your legs.
By now you will be flooded with pleasure and you can use the sex toys to bring on stunning orgasms over and over again. The other thing is that vibrators are designed to give you a distinctive emotional aura. For instance, Egg and Bullet vibrator: this kind of vibrators can have the shape of egg or bullet that come with one or two items in the set. The special comfort in use is achieved by their sliding shape and smooth surface, so they are easily inserted into vagina or rectum creating the wonderful sensations.
Apart from that your G-spot will beg for a little direct stimulation, especially when you're aroused or after you've already climaxed. For this, G-spot vibrator will do the job and this vibrator is curved at the top and is usually quite long to stimulate one of the hottest sex centers of woman's body. Applying that firm stimulation can lead to a G-spot orgasm. More to say, many people claimed that they have practiced the most intense orgasmic experience of all with this G-spot vibrator.
Furthermore, there are also other types of vibrators available like Classical vibrators that have straight phallic form, usually are made from hard plastic material, which renders vibrations in full. And for those who want to keep hands free
during the getting pleasure fun, Hands-free -- also called strap-on vibe -- is a great option. Vibrators are also remote controlled and you can use your vibrator everywhere from the bedroom to the boardroom! So choose your vibrator strap yourself in for one wild ride and experience all the pleasure of the world!!
Katie
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