Best Vibrator

Jennifer Amato asked:


Are you looking to turn up the heat during bedroom play? These products will add a little zest to your most intimate moments with your lover. Traditional vibrators bring pleasure and excitement to your bedroom past times. The thrill of watching your mate masturbate with a vibrator or dildo can make you aroused. Using a sex toy on your partner can be build excitement. However, imagine a sex toy that both you and your partner can enjoy together. This is possible with vibrating erection rings. These sex toys for couples will have you and your partner riding the waves of pleasure at the same time.

Vibrating erection rings, also known as vibrating cock rings serve several purposes. Not only do they provide pleasure for both the man and the woman at the same time during sexual intercourse, the cock ring in itself gives benefits for the man. One of the reasons is to keep a harder, more rigid erection. Another reason for using a cock ring is so the male can last longer by controlling the urge to come. Erection rings also helping keep more blood in the penis for a much better sensation. Men have used these types of products for years with great success.

Many of the vibrating erection rings come with a single or dual vibrating bullet stimulator. Within the toy, there are holes where these bullets are inserted. The tiny bullet vibrators cause the toy to vibrate. Available in a variety of shapes and sizes, the vibrating cock rings typically are shaped in a way that the toy will stimulate the clitoris and/or anus. Therefore, when the man places the cock ring over his penis, the toy is perfectly positioned to provide stimulation to the female’s erogenous zones during sexual intercourse.

Here are some sex toys for couples that I would recommend:

Double Dolphin - His penis & scrotum will get the stimulation from the powerful dual bullets, while the female will feel the double dolphins heads & tail stimulate her clitoris & anus.

Diving Dolphin - Vibration for her, stimulation for him, and penis enhancement. The amazing Triple Action Dolphin. The Dolphin's playful soft clit kisser and dual vibrating bullets for anal and testicular stimulation are the perfect companion for your exotic fantasies.

Dr. Z Passion Enhancer - Dr. Z Passion Enhancer is a great way to triple the pleasure of lovemaking for both partners. For her added pleasure, use the removable micro-stimulators that are guaranteed to instantly excite her. The soft, stretchy, silicone ring enhancer provides comfortable support and enhancement for that special man. Two wireless, micro-stimulators enthusiastically vibrate the anal and clitoral stimulators for her added pleasure.



Gary

Jennifer Amato asked:


What will these sex toy manufacturers come up with next?  I am continually amazed by new products that are developed, and wonder what is discussed during the designer’s brain storming sessions.    My first vibrator was called the “Pearl Butterfly.”  It had the rotating shaft, the vibrating clitoral stimulator, and I was impressed.  Now, the “Pearl Butterfly” is outshined by the latest and more intricate sex toys on the market.  Below are some of the latest products that are not your typical vibrator.

Take a look at the Sybian Sex Machine.  Rev this baby up and enjoy some wild and intense orgasmic moments.  This product is extremely powerful and costs more than your every day sex toy.   It includes different attachments and other gadgets that will be sure to give you the ride of your life. 

Another product that is new and definitely worth trying is the We-Vibe.  This sex toy is the first product that was developed that can be used during sexual intercourse.  One end is inserted into the vagina, which hits your G-spot and the other end rests on your sensitive clit.  The We-Vibe is hands free and fits comfortably with your bodily curves.

A unique vibrator that sparked my interest was the B3 Tuyo.  This sleek, luxurious looking vibrator is in the shape of a ball.   This multi-speed vibrator is great to use during solo play or with your partner, for a nice sensuous massage.  It also makes a wonderful gift as it comes packaged in a luxurious gift box.

Want to keep your sex toy your little secret.  Check out the LELO NEA.  I never realized how small vibrators can be.  In addition, this high-end vibrator resembles more of a decorative rock then a sex toy.  It offers multi-speeds and is only 3” in total length.  This vibe would be used more for surface stimulation than vaginal insertion.

For more information, click on this link for sex toys or refer to SpicyGear.com's vibrators department page.



Rodrigo

Jennifer Amato asked:


Question to Spicy Gear's Experts - I Am 24 and have not had sex in more than 10 year.I decided to wait for the right partner. Recently I have been feeling wet/horny and I thought buying a vibe, ultimate rabbit, will stimulate me and relieve the urge,

but oh my the experience was quite uncomfortable and almost painful. The thing is too big for me but it is only 5". I get stimulation to orgasm from rubbing the clit with my fingers with silk pants on but I have never had vaginal stimulations. Any suggestions.

It is very natural for you to be feeling sexual urges and the desire to satisfy them. Using a sex toy, such as the ultimate rabbit, is a great way to experience your body’s range of sensual and sexual feelings. It will also help you in discovering what you like, the types of touch you enjoy and how your body responds, building confidence in your sexual self and readying you for when you do enter into an intimate relationship.

Most women experience heightened pleasure through clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is packed with nerve endings with the sole purpose of sexual pleasure. On the other hand, the vagina has very few nerve endings compared to the clitoris and other areas of your genitila. Also, it takes time (10-30 minutes depending on the woman) for a woman to become fully sexually aroused, to the point where the vagina swells, lubricates and is ready for penetration.

What I recommend is that you take your time. Move the vibrator along other parts of your body to include your legs, inner thighs, breasts, abdomen, then slowly toward your vulva, inner and outer lips (labia), then your clitoris. Give yourself time to build up the sexual excitement before attempting to penetrate your vagina and include clitoral stimulation during any penetration. These steps can result in you experiencing powerful sexual sensations and orgasm! Enjoy!!

Question answered by Spicy Gear's Sex Therapist Lynne Santiago, MS, LMHC



Greta

Jennifer Amato asked:


When we think of sex toys, we think of your typical vibrator or dildo. However, there are a vast amount of products on the market specifically for men. As the owner of Spicy Gear, I also wanted to provide quality adult products to fulfill men’s sexual needs. Many adult web sites such as ours provide male masturbation toys and aids. Believe it or not, there are many people our there that are not aware of the vast amount of adult products designed for male masturbation. From realistic vaginas that have been molded from adult stars to penis rings that enhance erections, there are a multitude of adult toys and aids that men can enjoy.

You may have watched shows on HBO such as ‘Real Sex’ that have done features on Realistic Love Dolls. These life size dolls are made with a mouth and vagina that can simulate oral sex and sexual intercourse. However, just like women, men may also feel ashamed about owning a masturbation aid and want the convenience of owning a product that can be easily tucked away at the back of their closet. If discretion is important, products such as pocket size pleasure sleeves are available that are made of realistic materials. These pocket size masturbation aids are designed to simulate sexual intercourse and oral intercourse, with the convenience of size. Here are some products that we recommend.

Futurotic Pocket Pal – Made of realistic feeling Futurotic material. Feels as close to the real thing. One size fits most. 7” in length. Extremely flexible and comfortable to use.

Pocket Pleasure – Only 4” long making it extremely discreet in size. Contains openings on both ends to fit almost any size penis. Made of super velvety Neo Skin material.

Tera Patrick’s Futurotic Stroker Bonanza – Contains three different masturbation aides to simulate oral, anal, and vaginal sex. Made of realistic feeling Futurotic material.

Erection Rings are products that serve several purposes for men. Using an erection ring helps to enhance and maintain a more rigid erection. In addition, using a penis ring also helps to prolong sexual performance and keep blood in the penis for increased sensation.

Several erection rings also contain a vibrating bullet which provides male enhancement and pleasure for the partner during intercourse.

Some erection rings that we recommend are:

Diving dolphin – Contains dual vibrating bullets for clitoral and testicular stimulation while providing penis enhancement with its erection ring. Made of super soft jelly for absolute comfort.

Double dolphin – Contains two vibrating bullets for his and her pleasure. Provides clitoral and anal stimulation for her while providing penis enhancement for him.

Super Stretchy Erotic Silicone Rings – Extremely flexible for easy removal and comfortable to use. Available in assorted colors to add a little playful fun during bedroom play.

Many people are hesitant to purchase adult products from an actual store. There are many web sites such as ours that have product recommendations as well as a helpful staff to help in purchasing these types of products. In addition, reputable web sites will ensure the utmost billing and shipping discretion. Remember, using a sexual product can not only be pleasurable for yourself, but also spice up your relationship with that special someone.

For more information on this topic and other sex education articles please visit spicygear.com and click on link for Sex Ed



Sarai

Jennifer Amato asked:


Question to Spicy Gear's Experts - I'm a little scared about using a vibrator. Now, I bought one out of curiosity (And because I have no sex life now) but I heard that if you use a vibrator too much, you can't get an orgasm without it. Is that true? Also, I had sex recently for the first time in over a year. And it hurt like it was my first time! Is it possible to get one's virginity back? And... last question. I don't know if you can answer this, but... I consider myself very clean. And as far as I know, I don't have any STDs, but lately, down there has been really itchy and sore in some spots. Is it because I am too rough when I clean it? Or is it because I clean it too much? Or... is it something I should get checked out asap...

You ask several great questions. First, vibrator use is wonderful and, if the vibrator is used properly, it should only enhance your sexual life and your orgasmic pleasure. It is true that some women find that they become so accustomed to their vibrator that other pleasures become more challenging. So I recommend that you keep your sexual activities many and varied -- and fun! Second, you cannot get your virginity back, but if you cease having vaginal play for a prolonged period, the muscles of the vaginal canal may become less healthy and then tender when you begin having intercourse again. I always recommend that women who are having an intermission in their partnered sex lives – and not having intercourse for a while – should make a point of regularly stimulating themselves inside, with a dildo or fingers, in order to keep the vaginal canal supple and ready for action. Third, anyone who has genital itchiness should probably go to their medical practitioner for a check-up, because unfortunately many sexually transmitted infections (or other infections like yeast infections) produce no obvious symptoms and many of us are infected without knowing it. Finally, you write about cleaning yourself and, if you mean that you are cleaning your vagina internally, I would recommend that you talk with a medical practitioner or certified Sex Therapist about how you are doing this – the inside of the vagina is a delicate area and usually should not be washed with regular soaps, etc.

Question answered by Spicy Gear's Sex Therapist Barnaby B. Barratt, PhD, DHS, FAPA, ABPP



Milton